OK, I am not much better but I am a little more calm. So here is what happened. My stepbrother is 29 he's living on his own. I told my stepmom I didn't expect her to do anything, I don't think she will. I have come head to head with them before. This is how it will play out. Lea-Andra will tell the two of them it's wrong and tell them why. They will argue with me and then later it will turn out they changed their minds and my stepbrother will say mom is always right. It's happened before where my words have been used as someone elses.
Anyways Ryan is attached to the female he won't give her up. I can take a few babies. He told me he was told by the lady at the pet store that babies mature at 3 months. I told him she was wrong, VERY WRONG. Anyways we got into a huge discussion, he said he didn't care if they would breed again what was a few more babies. He believes that the mother will only have one more litter and she will magically stop having them. Also he said that the sisters and brothers will not breed with each other because there is this scent that they will recognized. I told him that a mom and son will breed. He didn't believe me, I told him I knew someone that it happened to. He basically told me not to worry about the rats and himself, basically to mind my own business. At which point I told him to f-off and hung up the phone.
It is really hard when it's so close to you. I can help him now but when his rats have rats and he has over 100 I can't help him with that. Unless I have a lot of people who can help. He learns by disaster. He won't listen to anyone and I know there is no way I can kidnap them as much as I want to.
I really don't know what I can do, he said the pet store said they would take some. And Elizabeth, I am pretty sure I know one of two in Barrie that started this whole mess. It's one of the two on Bayfield street near Future Shop.
I feel so bad for these rats, he has no clue what he's getting into and when he gets proven with fact he shuts you out.
He is the WORST person to have this happen to. He's manic depressive and bipolar. If anyone knows, Elizabeth you might know this, the guy quite a few years back that tried to blow himself up near the OPP station in Barrie. Well that's my stepbrother. He's been in jail twice now. He's been in the my life sucks state. You don't understand the trend. His life gets better, he gets a pet and gets in trouble. It's happened twice already, it WILL happen again.
SO this is what is going to happen. I have to leave this alone for now, I can't push any farther because I will push him away. I phoned him back and left a message and told him I was sorry for telling him to f-off. I told him I had my views but I know that I wouldn't change his. But if he needed anything, I would be there to help him. As much as I want to spit in his face right now. I know something bad will happen but there isn't much I can do about it. It sounds terrible, I know but I am at a loss.
Oh yeah and I am going to find out what store gave him the rats and who told him about not being able to sex them until three months and really give it to them.
*sigh* I am in total disbelief. Oh yeah and the male and female are still together because hey 'what's more rats?'
I wan't to cry.