Wow, people are being really open, but then again it doesn't surprise me that so many people are like me here, where its a board of dedicated animal lovers. I found having pets really helped me through the rough patches.
KristyR, 2 years is great! Its been since last march for me, and I find its easier the longer you don't do it, but some days its really hard not to. My doctor said if I go back to cutting, it will be like opening a door and easier for me to do next time. She gave me a huge list of things to do to try and distract myself from it.
Jo, I never really looked into self-harm as a condition its self, mostly I assumed it was a symptom. I wanted control, I wanted proof of the pain I was feeling, and I wanted to bleed the "bad" out of me. It did become a habit though, and my solution to anything wrong happening. Obviously not much of a solution and I am still trying to find ways to deal in a so-called "healthy" manner.
I have had so many diagnoses by different doctors, its not an exact science and each new one tells me something else. It was anxiety with clinical depression and borderline OCD, then BPD (borderline personality disorder- a general term for we don't know), then I was told nothing was wrong at all (stupid uneducated doctor), and now low spectrum bi-polar. I'm happy with wellbutrin, I still have depressive moments, "highs", and anxiety but its less and managable. I can get to class most days! Have to admit, I like the highs, I got so much done even if i did crash afterwards. The fact is I am terrified to try a different drug. Getting off paxil was a nightmare, and with finally being in college I can't afford to loose a month or two switching drugs. Then again Paxil was an awful drug for me, it didn't stop my break down at all and kept me feeling "drugged" which didn't help me get better at all. I lost years where I literally couldn't leave the house.
I think I found a good doctor out here, and I see her for the 4th time in a week or two and hopefully she is good. Out of the 11 doctors I have seen in my life since the age of four, only 3 or so have been any good.
I really hope your daughter finds a good doctor and finds a way to manage, and its great you are being so supportive and looking into this. I hate to think where I'd be without my mom helping me.