Well first off after reading your reply :hugs: sorry about your rought day and the loss, that will ruin any event even if its something that should be fun as cake testing.
Second ya I can see you're not in the mood for this sort of talk, no biggie, what matters is if your happy with your plans. Ya they say the most expensive part of a wedding is the dress and the cake. Even I got a budget on my dress, not go over $600, as for the cake well, we plan to see what our small town bakery can whip up for us since they do wedding cakes too, just not sure on the price. I wish I was in more knowledge on that, but at least as far goes as flavor is simple, chocolate lol.
You're so lucky that your fiance is with you throughout the turn of events for you and at least being their to do the planning. I can't plan a thing, heck I can't settle on doing this and that like taste testing offically, till he's here. Theme wise I don't honestly have a clue, probably at the end of the day have my Matron of Honor help me figure that stuff out (my 2nd eldest sister). Again im so sorry about your day, I was hoping it'd be fun to talk to you about your plans but it doesn't look like your up for it which I get :hugs: hope things will smooth out for you and your week gets better.