Amanda you are so pretty! I don't know what to tell you as far as exercise goes, I don't like it either. I hate to sweat lol
but I try to just do more walking and less sitting. Build in extra steps into your daily routine, like (for example) taking the stairs instead of the elevator if you're only going up a flight or two, parking your car further away from the store etc or getting off the bus one or two stops early, things like that.
and even though I'm sure it annoys people in line behind me, I have gone back to "fidgeting" while waiting in line for anything. I read one reason younger ppl stay thinner is that they are impatient and fidget more when they have to wait LOL so now if I"m in line, I rock back and forth from one foot to the other, and if the store is playing music, I'll do a little bit of bopping to the music, not too obvious cuz I can't dance, but just to keep me moving.
patchesboo I live in the US and I'm going to be 57 on my next birthday. I think there are at least a handful of us in the 50 plus range, and many more in their 40s
as far as diet, it helps to choose one that you can stick with all the time. I could never have stayed on this diet if I'd insisted that I never ever have something sweet.
it helps to first find out what is *in* the foods we're eating. I started paying attention to the amnt of sugar and fat in my former favorite foods and knew I had to find different favorite foods!
a lot of times we are in denial about what we are actually eating. it can help to write down, for at least a week, every single thing you eat. as a friend of mine says, if you bite it, you write it LOL
that way you can see just where you are straying from a healthy diet. I would eat mostly vegetables, no meat, but what "rounded out" that old diet was a lot of cake, ice cream and candy. I'd think to myself, how can my diet be bad, when I don't eat meat? but cake candy and ice cream were not healthy substitutes LOL
You can easily fool yourself into thinking your diet is not that bad, til you take a really good hard honest look at it.
the good news is, you can find many truly tasty alternatives to the bad stuff in your diet. If I crave sweets now, I have a stuffed date or 2 or 3 LOL it's just a pitted dried date, cut open and stuffed with a bit of all natural peanut butter and a pc of walnut
Yummy!
I used to eat a lot of eggs and butter, too as well as mayonnaise (not bacon though- my daughter has always been very fond of pigs so I could not eat bacon and upset her)
you'll find once you cut back on those, you will lose the craving for it. It helps to cut it out of your diet completely at first to re- set your taste buds.
The more you eat of certain foods, the more your taste buds crave it. if you cut it out completely for a short while and then add a bit back, you'll likely find that fatty foods now taste too greasy and are not as satisfying as you once thought.
you should also notice a huge difference in your digestion! give it a try and see how you feel!
can't hurt, right?