Prime654
Well-Known Member
So I have a cat ... Ok, maybe I don't "hate" it, but she can be frustrating.
I took the cat in for a friend / co-worker late in my last sememster at university as she had gotten sick and put in the hospital, diagnosed with cancer and passed on within a month. It was never meant to be a permenant situation, just turned out that way as the few friends/family I talked to about taking the cat were unable to take her off my hands for one reason or another. Well given i was graduating and moving away, and me being somewhat responsible, I had to take her with me.
Well, shes been with me now for about 6 years but she's still a very independant cat. Won't let me touch her / groom / pet her unless its on her terms, hiding away in a corner most of the day. She's a long hair cat which means she's hacking up hair balls almost daily and sheds like crazy. Every time a do a good cleaning of a room I swear i have enough hair to make 3 or 4 more cats. We clearly still haven't bonded after several years, Im not a cat person and shes too independant to make me think otherwise. Currently, were just 2 entities sharing the same living space.
Anyways, I'm not sure what to do. It's not that I want to get rid of her, I definately not one of those people that thinks pets are disposable or an accessory that can be thrown out on a whim (or at least like to think I am not). However, I can't help think she might be better off somewhere else. Also, she is getting older and if there are any serious medical conditions that arise, I'm not sure if I'll be willing or able to do everything for her.
I'm just at a loss as to what do with her...
I took the cat in for a friend / co-worker late in my last sememster at university as she had gotten sick and put in the hospital, diagnosed with cancer and passed on within a month. It was never meant to be a permenant situation, just turned out that way as the few friends/family I talked to about taking the cat were unable to take her off my hands for one reason or another. Well given i was graduating and moving away, and me being somewhat responsible, I had to take her with me.
Well, shes been with me now for about 6 years but she's still a very independant cat. Won't let me touch her / groom / pet her unless its on her terms, hiding away in a corner most of the day. She's a long hair cat which means she's hacking up hair balls almost daily and sheds like crazy. Every time a do a good cleaning of a room I swear i have enough hair to make 3 or 4 more cats. We clearly still haven't bonded after several years, Im not a cat person and shes too independant to make me think otherwise. Currently, were just 2 entities sharing the same living space.
Anyways, I'm not sure what to do. It's not that I want to get rid of her, I definately not one of those people that thinks pets are disposable or an accessory that can be thrown out on a whim (or at least like to think I am not). However, I can't help think she might be better off somewhere else. Also, she is getting older and if there are any serious medical conditions that arise, I'm not sure if I'll be willing or able to do everything for her.
I'm just at a loss as to what do with her...