SQ said:
The state doesn't have the right to impose a different meaning on a religious term with a specific meaning that has a long tradition and meaning.
Again, marriage is not solely a religious term, but let's look at this a different way.
A lot of people object to gay marriage because they're not comfortable with altering the definition of the word marriage.
Before 1929 in Canada, a woman was not considered a "person". To be honest, I can think of few words with such enormous significance as the word "person".
It's probably fair to assume that many people, at that time, were not in favour of extending
personhood to women. Some of those people might have wanted to afford women more rights, but were aghast at the idea of changing the definition of the word "person" to include females. I mean, come on, we're talking about changing the very definition of a person here!
So, what would've happened if society had tried to appease those people? What would've happened if women had been granted their rights, but instead of changing the definition of the word "person" to include them, some new, entirely different word was created for them? The new word would essentially be equal, in every respect, to the word "person", but as it negated the need to change the definition of a word, some people accepted the change more readily. A woman wouldn't be a person, but she'd be something else that was probably just as good. So, would that be okay? Would you have agreed to that?
Extending the meaning of a word and changing the meaning of a religious term that is deeply ingrained in various religions and tied to deeply held beliefs are not the same. To think that they are shows a lack of understanding of the depth of meaning, tradition, and integrated nature of the concept of marriage into the basic core of many religions.
SQ said:
This would give opposite sex and same sex couples the same legal relationship (name), the same legal rights, and the same recognization from the state. That is the point, isn't it?
Sorry. Separate but equal doesn't work. History has shown that time and time again.