rhapsody
Senior Member
Let's just say this spiel was expected, but the angle taken was completely out of left field ...
I was just down south with my hubby visiting my folks for the weekend. It had been super pleasant til Sunday morning when I went for a walk with my dad, and he handed me this letter that he wrote.
Basically he said that I need to get rid of my rodents because he wouldn't be able to visit his new grandkid due to his severe allergies to them. Apparently he feels that I shouldn't have ANY furry critters EVER in the off-chance that he'll come up to visit a couple times a year. Seriously, I wasn't allowed to have furry pets as a kid, and now I can't have them as an adult in my own house?!? Its not like he's going to be living with us!
Granted, I know how bad animal allergies are, considering how horrifically I react to my in-law's cat. Never in a million years though would I tell them outright that they needed to get rid of their cat, and that they couldn't ever have cats again if they wanted to see me again. But the crux of my allergy problem was that I was being forced into visiting my in-laws' house overnight. There's no way I'd do that to my dad - I'm more than willing to come to him with the grandkid.
I actually didn't think I was going to get any support from the hubby since he's been hinting that I should really let my critter numbers go down before the baby comes, but holy moly, on the way back home when I mentioned this "talk" with my dad, the hubby said he had absolutely no right to ask that of me.
ARGH!!! Still doesn't make me feel any less rotten about the whole thing. And now I'm girding my loins for the inevitable talk from my mom about how unhealthy furry pets in the house are once the baby comes ... Dang it all, I have my own bloody place, and the husband's support. Why do they have to make such a big deal about my pets?!?
I was just down south with my hubby visiting my folks for the weekend. It had been super pleasant til Sunday morning when I went for a walk with my dad, and he handed me this letter that he wrote.
Basically he said that I need to get rid of my rodents because he wouldn't be able to visit his new grandkid due to his severe allergies to them. Apparently he feels that I shouldn't have ANY furry critters EVER in the off-chance that he'll come up to visit a couple times a year. Seriously, I wasn't allowed to have furry pets as a kid, and now I can't have them as an adult in my own house?!? Its not like he's going to be living with us!
Granted, I know how bad animal allergies are, considering how horrifically I react to my in-law's cat. Never in a million years though would I tell them outright that they needed to get rid of their cat, and that they couldn't ever have cats again if they wanted to see me again. But the crux of my allergy problem was that I was being forced into visiting my in-laws' house overnight. There's no way I'd do that to my dad - I'm more than willing to come to him with the grandkid.
I actually didn't think I was going to get any support from the hubby since he's been hinting that I should really let my critter numbers go down before the baby comes, but holy moly, on the way back home when I mentioned this "talk" with my dad, the hubby said he had absolutely no right to ask that of me.
ARGH!!! Still doesn't make me feel any less rotten about the whole thing. And now I'm girding my loins for the inevitable talk from my mom about how unhealthy furry pets in the house are once the baby comes ... Dang it all, I have my own bloody place, and the husband's support. Why do they have to make such a big deal about my pets?!?