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This is my first post on here and it might get a liiitle deep. If you're not into that then probably just don't read lol. I currently don't have any rats, but I'm planning on it soon and already have the cage. Also, this thread is meant to share a tiny bit of my personal experience and hopefully get some of your advice on this matter. I'm really not looking for sympathy or anything lol. If you're still here, thanks in advance for listening.
To begin, last year was the absolute toughest year of my life. I won't go into detail but I hit the bottom and I'm lucky to be where I am today. I mean, I'm better, yes, but I still have moments of darkness and sometimes I feel completely unloved and alone.
I couldn't rely on my family and I didn't have any friends, but I did have snakes and lizards. They weren't the cause of me getting better but they did help. I still love them but... I know they don't love me back. I don't have many people at all to rely on and I've always had my pets.
Next school year is coming very very fast and I've been looking over the last months to find something to help me get through it a little easier. I found rats!
They aren't as big as a dog, but from what I can tell they still carry a whole lotta love. And I feel like that's exactly what I could use. They won't judge me or anything I just feel like having some little ratties to come home to and play with and just to know that I've gotta be there to care for them could really really help me.
The catch?
Sickness! From what I've heard rats can get sick pretty easily? That's a big no-no. I'm sure it is for everyone haha but like, guys I've got no money. I'm gonna work my absolute booty off to get these rats by the beginning of next year (and it's all on a huge budget, I'm diy-ing and I luckily already had the cage from my dads old sugar gliders) but I will probably only have about $100-$150 left over for vet bills. I'll save every spare thing I get while I have them for that exact reason but idk if I'll be able to do it. It's really, really hard to make money at my age. My mom said she can't spend a penny on them, so I've gotta do this alone and I've heard of vet bills quickly getting into the thousands. I know they have a short life span and I'm ok with pets dying of old age but I feel like if it was something I could prevent I couldn't forgive myself, ya knooow?
Is this a big problem? A deal breaker? If so, are there other, more hardy pets you'd recommend? I've looked everywhere but really rats are the best option I've found. Idk, sorry this post is a mess lmao. I've been thinking about this for a long time and it's stressing me out so I thought I'd maybe get some help. Thanks thanks.
This is my first post on here and it might get a liiitle deep. If you're not into that then probably just don't read lol. I currently don't have any rats, but I'm planning on it soon and already have the cage. Also, this thread is meant to share a tiny bit of my personal experience and hopefully get some of your advice on this matter. I'm really not looking for sympathy or anything lol. If you're still here, thanks in advance for listening.
To begin, last year was the absolute toughest year of my life. I won't go into detail but I hit the bottom and I'm lucky to be where I am today. I mean, I'm better, yes, but I still have moments of darkness and sometimes I feel completely unloved and alone.
I couldn't rely on my family and I didn't have any friends, but I did have snakes and lizards. They weren't the cause of me getting better but they did help. I still love them but... I know they don't love me back. I don't have many people at all to rely on and I've always had my pets.
Next school year is coming very very fast and I've been looking over the last months to find something to help me get through it a little easier. I found rats!
They aren't as big as a dog, but from what I can tell they still carry a whole lotta love. And I feel like that's exactly what I could use. They won't judge me or anything I just feel like having some little ratties to come home to and play with and just to know that I've gotta be there to care for them could really really help me.
The catch?
Sickness! From what I've heard rats can get sick pretty easily? That's a big no-no. I'm sure it is for everyone haha but like, guys I've got no money. I'm gonna work my absolute booty off to get these rats by the beginning of next year (and it's all on a huge budget, I'm diy-ing and I luckily already had the cage from my dads old sugar gliders) but I will probably only have about $100-$150 left over for vet bills. I'll save every spare thing I get while I have them for that exact reason but idk if I'll be able to do it. It's really, really hard to make money at my age. My mom said she can't spend a penny on them, so I've gotta do this alone and I've heard of vet bills quickly getting into the thousands. I know they have a short life span and I'm ok with pets dying of old age but I feel like if it was something I could prevent I couldn't forgive myself, ya knooow?
Is this a big problem? A deal breaker? If so, are there other, more hardy pets you'd recommend? I've looked everywhere but really rats are the best option I've found. Idk, sorry this post is a mess lmao. I've been thinking about this for a long time and it's stressing me out so I thought I'd maybe get some help. Thanks thanks.