TokenBlinkie
Currently being tamed by 4 rats. ☺🐀🐀🐀🐀
I posted their story in Member introductions.
I rescued 4 rats from being killed on a farm. They were approximately 2 weeks old, their eyes were still closed and ears close to their heads.
I've been syringe feeding them every 3 or 4 hours day and night for the first week, then the feeds started to space out, and they were fully weaned by the middle of last week.
I had been taking them everywhere with me, my life basically consists of working and homelife, so they'd come to work with me so I could feed them, then they'd come home in the evenings.
I've done all their care myself, never asked for my husband to help with night feeds or any aspect of their care - as far as I'm concerned I made the decision to rescue them so it is my responsibility to feed them etc.
This weekend I had a pre-arranged trip away, its been booked since last year, and it consisted of an overnight stay. The only thing that needed doing was to check their food and water, and to replace their bedding. I gave instructions on how to do so, advising him to place the cage in the bath (dry bath), and that it is very possible to clean the cage with them still in there, doing one section at a time and thoroughly drying each section before moving onto the next - absolutelyno reason to remove the rats from the cage if you are not used to dealing with them.
I get a phonecall yesterday morning, while I was hundreds of miles away, to say one rat had escaped while cleaning their cage.
He had decided to ignore my instructions, put a box on the bathroom floor amd the cage balanced on the toilet seat. I don't know what happened , but one rat has escaped.
I'm angry, I'm heartbroken, and a whole lot of other emotions that I don't even know how to express. I haven't left them with anyone before. I trusted him. I arrived home last night, the last day of the trip was ruined because all I could think about was the escaped rat and how to try to get home as quickly as possible and how to get it back.
I don't understand how he can be so blasé about it, he is more than happy to just leave food amd water out in the bathroom amd wait to see if it comes back. This means nobody in our family can use the main bathroom as we have to keep the door shut due to having 2 dogs and 2 cats.
I'm supposed to be at work today, but I've got an unbelievable headache, plus I want to find the rat baby. All he seems interested in is going to visit his mum, because he was meant to visit her yesterday and I told him he needed to find the rat before I arrived home.
I've made a tube out of cardboard rolls and smeared little bits of peanut butter at intervals inside. The sleeping pouch is also there, and the cage its siblings are in is also in the bathroom so that it can hear them. Also a bowl of water.
I've set up a ring camera to alert for movement. It was spotted at 10:15pm and this morning at about 8am I dangled a fork handle with peanut butter on the end and it took a little lick from the end.
The space is so tiny because the toilet is in the way, and because the toilet and bath is there, we cannot remove the floorboards.
Please help me, I've never been in this situation before. I've only had them for about 2 or 3 weeks so I don't even know if that is enough time for the baby to have bonded with me or whether it sees me as a strange huge being.
*It's just this minute been spotted on the camera, it ran around the toilet, sniffed it's sleeping pouch, then ran back and disappeared*
I rescued 4 rats from being killed on a farm. They were approximately 2 weeks old, their eyes were still closed and ears close to their heads.
I've been syringe feeding them every 3 or 4 hours day and night for the first week, then the feeds started to space out, and they were fully weaned by the middle of last week.
I had been taking them everywhere with me, my life basically consists of working and homelife, so they'd come to work with me so I could feed them, then they'd come home in the evenings.
I've done all their care myself, never asked for my husband to help with night feeds or any aspect of their care - as far as I'm concerned I made the decision to rescue them so it is my responsibility to feed them etc.
This weekend I had a pre-arranged trip away, its been booked since last year, and it consisted of an overnight stay. The only thing that needed doing was to check their food and water, and to replace their bedding. I gave instructions on how to do so, advising him to place the cage in the bath (dry bath), and that it is very possible to clean the cage with them still in there, doing one section at a time and thoroughly drying each section before moving onto the next - absolutelyno reason to remove the rats from the cage if you are not used to dealing with them.
I get a phonecall yesterday morning, while I was hundreds of miles away, to say one rat had escaped while cleaning their cage.
He had decided to ignore my instructions, put a box on the bathroom floor amd the cage balanced on the toilet seat. I don't know what happened , but one rat has escaped.
I'm angry, I'm heartbroken, and a whole lot of other emotions that I don't even know how to express. I haven't left them with anyone before. I trusted him. I arrived home last night, the last day of the trip was ruined because all I could think about was the escaped rat and how to try to get home as quickly as possible and how to get it back.
I don't understand how he can be so blasé about it, he is more than happy to just leave food amd water out in the bathroom amd wait to see if it comes back. This means nobody in our family can use the main bathroom as we have to keep the door shut due to having 2 dogs and 2 cats.
I'm supposed to be at work today, but I've got an unbelievable headache, plus I want to find the rat baby. All he seems interested in is going to visit his mum, because he was meant to visit her yesterday and I told him he needed to find the rat before I arrived home.
I've made a tube out of cardboard rolls and smeared little bits of peanut butter at intervals inside. The sleeping pouch is also there, and the cage its siblings are in is also in the bathroom so that it can hear them. Also a bowl of water.
I've set up a ring camera to alert for movement. It was spotted at 10:15pm and this morning at about 8am I dangled a fork handle with peanut butter on the end and it took a little lick from the end.
The space is so tiny because the toilet is in the way, and because the toilet and bath is there, we cannot remove the floorboards.
Please help me, I've never been in this situation before. I've only had them for about 2 or 3 weeks so I don't even know if that is enough time for the baby to have bonded with me or whether it sees me as a strange huge being.
*It's just this minute been spotted on the camera, it ran around the toilet, sniffed it's sleeping pouch, then ran back and disappeared*