uglycupcake
Well-Known Member
Hey everyone,
I desperately need some advice. This is going to be a long post, as I want to give some background. Last year I adopted a lone female from the Durham Humane Society (Aria). She was in the smallest cage and very skittish. I had no expectations that she could be socialized, but I wished to give her a better life as I had the space and funds for a single critter nation.
I picked up a cagemate for her, whose previous owner could not keep her anymore (Harmony). She had been a lone rat, but was very social and friendly with humans. She ended up being lovely with Aria as well.
Nearly a year later, Aria still does not like to be picked up or held, and is skittish to pets. She will sometimes bite if my hand is in the cage cleaning, or adjusting things (unless your're offering food, lol). She hasn't bitten out of the cage, so I'm assuming she is just territorial. I do not have an issue with this, since every rat is different and some are just more aggressive than others.
Aria also likes to fight Harmony, who wants nothing to do with the fighting and will submit immediately. But Aria will still continue to nip at her. Personally, I have not found any bad bites or blood, and Harmony seemed to evade Aria pretty well most of the time.
But in the past few months, Harmony's hind-leg degeneration has been progressing, and her mobility is limited. In this time, Aria has gotten increasingly more aggressive with Harmony, even though Harmony will submit.
I added an extra shelf into the critter nation so there is less of a drop in case of a fall. I don't really understand why Harmony's loss of mobility is causing more aggression from Aria, but it is very concerning to me. I do not have the space to separate them, nor do I want to, as they'd be lone rats again if I did. However, they don't seem to enjoy each other's company.
I don't know if I can resolve this, or if I might have to give one away and pair the remaining one with another. But Harmony requires medication twice a day everyday and glucosamine. Aria is not very social and aggressive. So even if I went the route of rehoming one of them, it'd be hard to find a home.
Anyone else have similar experience? Any suggestions would be appreciated!
I desperately need some advice. This is going to be a long post, as I want to give some background. Last year I adopted a lone female from the Durham Humane Society (Aria). She was in the smallest cage and very skittish. I had no expectations that she could be socialized, but I wished to give her a better life as I had the space and funds for a single critter nation.
I picked up a cagemate for her, whose previous owner could not keep her anymore (Harmony). She had been a lone rat, but was very social and friendly with humans. She ended up being lovely with Aria as well.
Nearly a year later, Aria still does not like to be picked up or held, and is skittish to pets. She will sometimes bite if my hand is in the cage cleaning, or adjusting things (unless your're offering food, lol). She hasn't bitten out of the cage, so I'm assuming she is just territorial. I do not have an issue with this, since every rat is different and some are just more aggressive than others.
Aria also likes to fight Harmony, who wants nothing to do with the fighting and will submit immediately. But Aria will still continue to nip at her. Personally, I have not found any bad bites or blood, and Harmony seemed to evade Aria pretty well most of the time.
But in the past few months, Harmony's hind-leg degeneration has been progressing, and her mobility is limited. In this time, Aria has gotten increasingly more aggressive with Harmony, even though Harmony will submit.
I added an extra shelf into the critter nation so there is less of a drop in case of a fall. I don't really understand why Harmony's loss of mobility is causing more aggression from Aria, but it is very concerning to me. I do not have the space to separate them, nor do I want to, as they'd be lone rats again if I did. However, they don't seem to enjoy each other's company.
I don't know if I can resolve this, or if I might have to give one away and pair the remaining one with another. But Harmony requires medication twice a day everyday and glucosamine. Aria is not very social and aggressive. So even if I went the route of rehoming one of them, it'd be hard to find a home.
Anyone else have similar experience? Any suggestions would be appreciated!